Canada's Costly Niceness
Why British Columbia Refuses to Follow the World on Youth Gender Care
Across Europe, health authorities have pulled back from fast-tracking minors into irreversible medical transitions. The UK’s Cass Review condemned the Tavistock clinic’s practices as unsafe and insufficiently evidence-based1. Sweden now restricts hormones and surgeries for minors to research settings only, citing the need for more robust longitudinal data2. Finland, Norway, and France have all echoed this pivot, emphasizing psychotherapy and caution over medicalization. Even parts of the United States have legislated strict limits, with more than twenty states restricting puberty blockers, hormones, or surgeries for minors3. A clear international trend has emerged: caution, evidence review, and safeguarding are replacing ideology-driven medicine.
And yet, here in Canada, and in British Columbia, the accelerator remains pressed to the floor.
The Numbers We’re Not Supposed to See
Between 2018 and 2023, at least 300 minors in Canada (outside Quebec) underwent double mastectomies—healthy breast removal surgeries—at ages as young as 144. That is roughly one child every six days. Thousands more were placed on puberty blockers or cross-sex hormones, though national data is obscured by design. British Columbia, home to one of the country’s busiest youth gender clinics, likely accounts for a significant share of these interventions.
Surgeries for minors are not rare. They are routine. And unlike in Europe, where the evidence is being re-examined and procedures limited, B.C. continues to align itself with the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH)—an organization whose leaked internal documents reveal knowledge of harm and lack of evidence, but a continued push for medicalization anyway5.
The Money Trail
In B.C., gender-affirming care is not only permitted—it is incentivized. All treatments are fully funded under the provincial health plan6. In 2018, B.C. became the first western province to expand surgical access in-province, training new surgeons and investing resources to meet growing demand7. The system rewards affirmation. Clinics and outpatient surgical centres that are contracted to deliver publicly funded care can schedule full days of chest surgeries without question, often with long waitlists of youth lined up for their turn.
Inside the Operating Room: What a B.C. Anesthesiologist Reported
Recently, an anesthesiologist working with a Vancouver-area private surgical centre described the following:
Throughput: the centre can perform up to ten double mastectomies in a single day, including on patients as young as 148.
Payment differential: for breast removal due to cancer, the clinic is paid roughly $400; for the same operation performed for gender reasons, the clinic is paid roughly $1,400 by government8.
Workforce ethics: some nurses refuse to participate in these pediatric gender cases, but the surgeries proceed regardless.
These are firsthand allegations relayed by a clinician to an outside interlocutor. If accurate, they suggest an industrialized model of pediatric chest surgery driven not only by ideology and access policy, but by reimbursement structures that pay more to remove healthy breasts than to treat cancer. They also reveal conscience-based resistance inside the operating room—a sign that the public-facing consensus in B.C. is not mirrored by every professional behind the scenes.
This report aligns with what we already see at the policy level: B.C.’s MSP-funded pathway treats chest construction as medically necessary9, and procedures are routinely scheduled at outpatient surgical centres as day surgeries under general anesthesia. In practice, this creates capacity and financial incentives that make affirmation the path of least resistance, regardless of long-term consequences.
Niceness as Policy
But why does B.C. cling so hard to this model when others have paused? The answer lies not only in policy, but in culture.
Canada is the land of nice. A nation that prides itself on tolerance, politeness, and deference. Here, affirmation is equated with kindness; skepticism with cruelty. The fear of being seen as intolerant silences open debate. In a recent Angus Reid survey, 58% of Canadians said they support banning campus speakers who challenge gender or race orthodoxies 10. In other words: better to silence than to risk offense. This tendency does not remain confined to the academy. It filters into hospitals, clinics, and classrooms, where professionals and parents alike are pressured to affirm first and question later—or not at all.
This ethos of niceness—meant to protect—has become its own form of violence. Because niceness, when it overrides truth, costs children their bodies. Behind the smile of tolerance lurks a shadow of complicity: professionals who know something is wrong but feel too constrained to speak; parents who sense harm but dare not confront the cultural tide; journalists who worry more about careers than facts. Niceness has become anesthesia, dulling society to the cost of its compliance.
Media Silence, Professional Fear
Internationally, headlines about Tavistock’s closure and Sweden’s U-turn made waves. In Canada, they barely registered11. Journalists privately admit that trans issues are the “third rail” of Canadian reporting. To touch it critically is to risk career and reputation.
The case of Dr. Gordon Guyatt—the Canadian physician who coined “evidence-based medicine”—is telling. After publishing analyses of puberty blockers and hormones, he found himself under fire from both activists and critics12. Colleagues were too frightened to sign their names to a simple contextual letter. Amy Hamm has argued that Guyatt himself has since caved to activist pressure13. Whether or not one agrees, the episode shows what happens in a climate where professionals cannot speak freely: science bends under fear, and research is eclipsed by reputation management.
Even Canada’s top leadership is not immune to this climate of silence. Reports have circulated that one of Prime Minister Mark Carney’s daughters attended the Tavistock clinic in the UK before it was shut down. When asked directly, Carney refused to comment—a silence that, in a moment demanding transparency, speaks volumes14. The very fact that such a question cannot be openly addressed by the nation’s leader illustrates how politically radioactive and suppressed the issue has become.
This culture of silence filters down in visible ways. Nurses in B.C. have been disciplined for questioning gender ideology online15. Parents who resist are gagged by court orders, even threatened with jail if they dare to refer to their daughters as “she”16. Teachers and counsellors are told to hide children’s social transitions from families. In this climate, is it any wonder that the public rarely hears about the international course correction, or that so few whistleblowers emerge from within the system itself?
Law as Weapon
Then there is the legal scaffolding. Under B.C.’s Infants Act, minors of any age can consent to their own medical treatment if a clinician deems them capable17. In practice, this has meant 13- and 14-year-olds being started on testosterone or puberty blockers against the wishes of a parent. Courts have upheld these rights, sidelining mothers and fathers as mere bystanders to irreversible medicalization18.
On top of this, Canada’s sweeping 2021 conversion therapy ban has blurred the line between protection and coercion. The vague language effectively criminalizes exploratory therapy that might lead a child to desist, leaving “affirmation” as the only legally safe option for clinicians19. Any doctor or therapist who dares to ask too many questions risks disciplinary hearings, human-rights complaints, or criminal sanctions. This has created a chilling effect across the professions: even those who sense the risks of affirmation-only models keep their doubts private.
What Niceness Is Costing Us
Niceness feels good. It reassures. It paints dissenters as cruel so the rest of us can feel virtuous. But the cost of niceness is now measured in scars across the chests of teenage girls, in sterile wombs, in confused young men whose bodies will never function as they once did. The psychological toll is still largely unmeasured: regret, grief, alienation from one’s own body, compounded by the silence of a society that demanded affirmation at all costs.
The great irony is this: in our effort to be nice, we have abandoned care. In our fear of offending, we have forfeited safeguarding. In our obsession with affirmation, we have surrendered truth. The rest of the world is waking up. Clinics are being shuttered, guidelines rewritten, evidence reevaluated. The question is whether British Columbia—whether Canada—will have the courage to do the same, or whether we will continue anesthetizing ourselves with politeness while our children bear the scars.
Take heart,
Jason
Footnotes
Swedish National Board of Health and Welfare (2022 guidance).
Legislative Tracker, U.S. Gender Medicine Restrictions (2024).
CIHI/Let Kids Be, “How Many Kids are Medically and Surgically Transitioning?” (2024).
BC Gov News Release, “B.C. brings gender-affirming surgery closer to home” (Nov. 2018).
Allegation reported by Vancouver-area anesthesiologist (2025, Billboard Chris post).
National Post, Michael Higgins, “Naive Canadian doctor embroiled in trans controversy” (Aug. 2025).
National Post, Amy Hamm, “Father of evidence-based medicine turns his back on science” (Aug. 2025).
BC Court of Appeal, case regarding parental gag order (2019).
Bill C-4, An Act to amend the Criminal Code (conversion therapy ban, 2021).



Thank you for sharing this with us. It makes me so sad.
What a great essay. You are among many decent Canadians fighting the good fight, like Kathleen Lowrey, Meghan Murphy and Eva Kurilova. You're in good company on Substack.